apparently it’s national coming out day, so here’s a BIG shout out to all the bisexuals out there who are open and loud about their sexuality regardless of their relationship status. so many people tell us that there’s no point in coming out as bi unless we absolutely need to, but the pain that comes with having to hide a huge part of who you are applies to us as much as anyone else, as does the joy and relief that comes with no longer having to constantly worry about others finding out. bi people are always bi, and having the freedom to be ourselves and express who we are is important for us too!
no one has to come out until they’re ready, but if you’re bi, know that you don’t have to wait until you’re in a serious relationship the same gender to be who you are. coming out is a neverending process that can be scary and even dangerous, but it’s never useless, and the weight that’s lifted when you’re finally able to be yourself is one of the most freeing experiences in the world. every single unapologetically bi person who insists on letting their identity be known is an inspiration to me and i appreciate each and every one of you 💖💜💙
And I think it comes from the understanding that this Zoe B will just be a casual fling for Anissa BUT what white women may not quite understand is that “ho” is basically the hood equivalent of slut. They wouldn’t utter the word “slut” even jokingly at anyone but think “ho” is okay???
Ugh, like you said in your original tags. Just too damn comfortable and wrong on top of it all
Girl, yes. But they think they’re being cute. Like at first it’s like “okay, she’s gonna have a casual hookup okay I get it. I get it” but it’s too much now. Like, stop. You’re not… you’re just straight up calling her a ho for no reason now.
That’s just so…wild. I know folks joke on here about being single and not going out and all that a lot but some folks just really do not know how dating works huh? It seems to always be an issue with the wlw on here. If a character isn’t one date with someone and done and professing full commitments to the person we assume will be the one for them by damn near the next episode then folks don’t know how to damn deal, smh
Just Sha 