In seriousness, as women we get so hung up on feeling the Right Way, on experiencing our sexuality the Right Way, on treating women the Right Way, that we forget to actually touch base with what is authentic and true within ourselves! I’ve never had an issue with this personally because receiving strap sex and penetration in general is extremely central to my sex life and my emotional connection with my partner(s) and it’s very common to be on either side of that! You probably want to use a strap because wearing one is hot, being inside another woman is hot, making her scream is hot, and that’s good and okay and healthy! It’s doesn’t HAVE to be That Deep.
I actually passed this on to the incomparable @profemssional, queen of telling my dumbass to stop overthinking shit. and she has good perspective as always
Just Sha 